For many seniors, driving is associated with independence. When they are able to drive they can run errands by themselves, go to the doctor\u2019s appointment, or visit family members and friends when they want. When they give up their car keys they can feel like they\u2019ve lost autonomy and mobility. If your loved one has impaired vision, suffers from hearing loss or disorientation, has slower reflexes or joint pain, our eldercare providers suggest it’s time for them to give up their drivers\u2019 license.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Age alone is not a predictor for poor driving skills. But if you’re convinced your loved one is dangerous behind the wheel, you’ll have to talk to them about giving up driving. This is for their own safety and that of others. This conversation can be stressful for both of you. But there are ways to minimize your loved one\u2019s feelings of resentment over lost independence. One long talk can put a pressure on them. Try discussing this topic casually and see how your parent would react. Explain to them there are alternative transportation arrangements, so they don\u2019t feel like they are trapped in their house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before you have this conversation with them, eldercare providers recommend making sure that your parent is no longer able to drive well. Go for a ride with them and see if your intuition is right or not. If you estimate that your loved one presents a danger behind the wheel, you can use that ride as an example why they should give up their car keys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t know how to start this conversation, eldercare providers recommend you mention recent headlines about accidents caused by seniors. This way your senior won\u2019t feel like they\u2019re being ambushed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Try to make it clear that you are only concerned for their well-being. Some seniors don\u2019t want to talk to their family members about this stressful topic. But they will listen to the advice of a professional. Their physician may provide an evaluation and explain to them they should give up driving due to safety concerns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Also, there are programmes, such as Drive Lab, that provide driving skills evaluation. If that doesn\u2019t help, a friend or a neighbor who has already given up driving can share their experience with your loved one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n